Sometimes a key insight smacks you like cold water in the face.
I had the honor of watching my 21 month old grandchild in my home last week. Believe me, I got plenty of water in my face as she showed me her swimming kicks at every bath!
But I also realized that anything in a pouch type package goes directly in the mouth, which I witnessed in horror as she grabbed and sucked on an open sample pouch of organic baby shampoo her Mom left for us to use.
Given the surge in Mommy using pouch packed foods as convenient nutrition, even this “real-foods” based girl has had pouch foods for on-the-go nutrition. So we’d been at Harris Teeter earlier that day to grab two Plum Organic pouches of airplane-ready travel food for the trip home later in the week. I quickly stashed it out of sight, but all day she pestered me to “hold it” or “have pouch” or “eat pouch”, all of which I successfully dodged.
Later in the bath, she saw and immediately grabbed the shampoo pouch, gleefully exclaiming “Maren do it” and into the mouth it went. You can imagine the ruckus that began when I snatched it out of her slippery little hand. This girl modeled her objection after Adele. Full-bodied, loud and long.
The insight hit me again the next day when we tried to apply sunscreen from, yes, you guessed it, a pouch-like container. I got the full blown “Maren do it” and had to act lightning fast to avoid another episode.
I bring this up not as a new “so-what” but as a “do-what” for anyone who looks after a child. An insight is only useful if applied. Realize these things:
- the associations made in the toddler brain can’t discern the difference between good or bad things in pouch packaging
- the toddleer sucking for nutrition and satisfaction instinct is still very strong
- the inherent default for a toddler is “I do it” and they get great satisfaction and praise from others for just about any accomplishment
- when “they do it” – they get a dopamine shot in the brain and then they crave it again and again
- no amount of logical conversation with a toddler changes this.
Pouched nutrition is a convenient way to accomplish feeding young ones. But we must all be aware that the dangers of “pouch obsession” translating to ingesting very bad substances are very real and must be managed with great care by parents and childcare professionals alike.